Looking for love? You’re in the right place. Today we’re dishing all things Love Alchemy; sharing spirited insights, practical advice, and our simple 3 step formula to help you attract the perfect romantic partner.
Love Alchemy: How To Attract the Man of Your Dreams
1. Clear Space.
The first step to calling in your dream guy is to clear the space for them to enter (that’s a nice way of saying: ditch the loser), because in order to attract the perfect romantic partner, we must make ourselves available for love.
A quick riff on relationships:
All relationships are purposeful — meaning, they serve as lessons and assignments, opportunities for soul growth and expansion. Some of these relationships are lifelong (no matter what, you'll be together forever), some of these relationships are life-giving (they exist simply to remind you, “you still got it”), and some of these relationships are definitive, meaning they have a strict, defined purpose (you came together for a specific reason); and when the purpose is complete, so is the relationship. Here’s the thing: Just because someone enters your life (even if they’ve been there for a while), doesn’t mean they’re meant to stay there — and when we cling, attach ourselves, or hold onto someone who isn’t the right fit, we block ourselves from finding the one who is.
Time to let him / her go.
2. Love Yourself.
In order to attract a partner worthy of your love, you have to know your worth, first. That means, you have to love yourself, first. Allow us to show you how.
This step is absolutely critical because you only attract as much love into your life as you give to yourself.
3. The Love List.
Now that you’ve cleared the space and fallen head over heels, butterflies in your stomach, madly in love with yourself, you’re ready to call in the man of your dreams. Enter, The Love List. A sexy & spirited MANifestation tool to help you get incredibly specific about exactly what you're looking for in a partner (and what you’re not looking for), ensuring that you accept nothing less than what you want, and nothing less than you deserve. It works like this:
Step 1. Make your list.
Make a list of everything you want in a romantic partner. Get super specific. You can totally write down physical qualities (6’ 3’’, tattooed, blue eyes, washboard abs, etc.), but try not to get stuck in the superficial aspect of it. Instead, focus on how he or she is going to make you feel — that’s where the magic is.
The butterflies you get when you see them, the huge smile you get when you think about them, the way they make you feel like you’re the luckiest girl in the world. Make sure your list is detailed and specific enough that you recognize exactly how you want to feel when you’re with or thinking about your partner. (The Universe loves specificity.)
Step 2. Dwell in love.
Here’s the thing about the Love List, it’s classic MANifestation — meaning, it adheres to the Universal Law of Attraction, like attracts like. Therefore, in order to attract what we want into our lives (in this case, love), we have to become a vibrational match for love. How do we do that? Dwell in love. Dwell in the energy of how Mr. Right is going to make you feel. How do we do that? Pinpoint the things in your life that already make you feel the way you wish to feel. For example, if you want to feel supported, where do you feel supported right now? Do more of that.
TWEET IT OUT: IF THERE IS SOMETHING THAT YOU DESIRE AND IT IS NOT COMING TO YOU, IT ALWAYS MEANS THE SAME THING. YOU ARE NOT A VIBRATIONAL MATCH TO YOUR OWN DESIRE. - ABRAHAM HICKS
Step 3. Trust.
Now for the fun (and hardest) part — patiently waiting for the man of your dreams to sweep you off your feet. Although the Universe is always working on your behalf, it's not always working on your time. Trust and know that when you’re ready, you’re going to receive exactly what you’re looking for as long as you do your part, which is not settling for anything less than you want or deserve.
Rest easy, love, knowing the perfect partner is on the way.
We want to hear from you! We’d love for you to share your Love List and your MANifesting stories in the comment section below! Know someone who would benefit from reading this post? Spread the love and share it with them.
We adore you, xo
Erika & Jess
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